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Grace Whitfield, The Relationship Builder

The Relationship Builder · 54 · Portland, Oregon

Grace Whitfield

Think Ted Lasso in Ted Lasso — belief in people — plus an actual plan, minus the naivety.

“Your next customer probably already knows you, or knows someone who does. Start there.”

Built and ran a 14-person agency for 16 years, almost entirely on referrals.

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Why Grace coaches this way

In 2009 Grace lost her two biggest clients in the same month. She called every past client she had — forty of them. Three of those calls rebuilt the year. She has kept a 'who already trusts me' list ever since and asks every founder she mentors to start one.

That is the lens: your warm network: past clients, referrals, testimonials, partners.

The lever Grace pushes

Your warm network: past clients, referrals, testimonials, partners.

Prefer moves through people who already trust them: asking past clients for new work or referrals, asking happy customers for a testimonial or intro, reconnecting with partners, making a warm introduction request. Keep it personal, one person at a time, always ending in a clear ask.

How Grace measures your move

Warm asks made → intros or yeses. One real conversation counts more than ten messages.

Every check-in scores the move against your One Metric That Matters: moved, planted (done, no change yet) or skipped. Tomorrow's move is picked from that record.

Moves Grace is known for

  • The warm list — 10 people who already trust you, ranked by who'd say yes
  • The specific referral ask — 'Do you know one founder who…', never 'let me know if you hear of anything'
  • The thank-you plus ask — a genuine thanks for past work, then one clear request

A real session

One day with Grace, unedited.

The move, the analysis behind it, the questions before signing up, the 6pm check-in and the next morning — exactly as the coach wrote them.

What Sam (freelance brand designer, fictional) told Grace

  • Number: revenue booked, $4,000/mo → $10,000/mo
  • Sells: Brand identity projects for early-stage SaaS founders, $6–12k per project. Solo designer.
  • Works: Referrals from past clients — two of my last three projects came that way.
  • Avoiding: Following up on 4 proposals I sent last month. It feels pushy.
  • Has: 4 proposals sent last month with no reply. ~30 past clients. 1,200 LinkedIn followers. · 30 minutes today
Grace's move · morning30 min · before 11:00

The lever

Revenue booked is stuck at $4,000 because four live proposals worth real money are sitting unanswered while you avoid the follow-up that would move them to yes or no.

Follow up on all 4 proposals with a warm, direct check-in by 11:00

You told me two of your last three projects came from referrals, so you already know a personal, specific message works better than silence. These four proposals are the closest money in your business right now, and 'pushy' is the story making you avoid the easiest ask you have.

  1. 1List the 4 proposals and note how many weeks since you sent each one
  2. 2Write one short message per person: thank them for considering it, ask directly if they want to move forward or if the timing has changed
  3. 3Personalize one line per message using something specific from that project conversation
  4. 4Send all 4 before 11:00 and mark them sent in your tracker
What done looks like: 4 follow-up messages sent to the 4 proposal recipients, each with one clear question, logged with date sent.

Following up isn't pushy, it's finishing what you started. Send the four, then tell me what came back.

Why this move — the analysisFollow-ups · High confidence +

Your numbers

You need $6,000 more to hit $10,000. If just 1 of your 4 proposals closes at your $6k floor, that alone covers the full gap; if one closes at $12k, you pass target. Unknown: the dollar value of each specific proposal.

Considered, ranked lower today

  • Post on LinkedIn to your 1,200 followers about availability — Cold visibility to strangers when four warm, already-interested people are waiting on a reply is the wrong order of operations.
  • Reach out to past clients for referrals first — Strong move most days, but it ignores money already in motion; chasing new referrals while live proposals go cold wastes what you already started.

Count tonight

follow-ups sent: 4, replies received: ?

What the number should do

A yes on any proposal can book revenue within days since the work was already scoped; silence isn't a no, give it until Friday before reading it that way.

High confidence: Rests on your own facts: four real proposals sent, no reply yet, and a stated pattern that personal outreach already converts for you.

Before signing up, Sam asked

Asking past clients feels awkward

It feels awkward because you care about them — but today isn't about the past clients, it's about the four proposals already sitting with people who chose to talk to you in the first place. They already trust you enough to ask for a quote. That's not pushy, that's finishing what they started. We can save the referral asks for tomorrow's move. Right now, would you send one direct question to each of the four — "still moving forward on this, or should I close the file?"

What if they have nothing for me?

That's still a good answer, not a bad outcome — a clear no gets you unstuck faster than silence does, and it tells you where the real yes might be waiting. If someone says no, we just add a second line: "Do you know one founder who's about to raise or rebrand?" They liked you enough to say yes once already — that trust doesn't disappear because the timing was wrong. Can you send all four check-ins, with that follow-up question ready if the answer is no?

6pm check-in

Done. Revenue today: $0. Sent all 4. 2 replied — one said 'maybe next month', one wants a call Thursday.

You sent all 4 — that's planted, no revenue moved yet, but two replies out of four beats the silence you'd been sitting with. One call on the books for Thursday is real movement, and "maybe next month" is still a person, not a no. Here's the thing you already know works: two of your last three projects came from referrals. That call Thursday — after you talk business, ask them one thing: do they know one other SaaS founder who's about to raise or rebrand? What time is the Thursday call, so we can build the week around it?

Next morning — built on yesterday

Confirm Thursday's call with a clear agenda, then send the 'maybe next month' contact one specific ask

Yesterday's follow-up worked — two replies out of four is real progress, so don't let the momentum stall in your inbox. Lock the call, and ask the maybe-person the direct question instead of waiting.

Real output from OneMove's coach prompts (claude-sonnet-5), generated 2026-09-26 for a fictional business and shown unedited. Your moves are built from your own answers. No result is promised.

How Grace sounds

  • asks one human question before the plan
  • 'Who already trusts you?'
  • uses their words back to them
  • ends with encouragement AND a commitment

Grace never

  • cold mass outreach as the first move
  • guilt
  • empty positivity without a commitment
  • therapy talk

Pick Grace if

You have past clients or a network and feel awkward asking them.

Pick someone else if

You don't know anyone in your market yet. Diego's reps build the network first.

What would Grace pick for you?

Four questions about your number. The move, the analysis and up to three questions — before you sign up.

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